Marriage Shouldn't Be This Tough

So more drama over more reception plans tonight. I was so tired of explaining and arguing and explaining some more (my mom especially needs a lot of explaining for her to understand), that I tried to convince Josh to let me just cancel the whole stupid thing. He tried a "compromise" and said we could maybe have one in Utah and none in Vegas. Like that wouldn't piss off everyone I know. I hate receptions; I hate everything about them. I just want to marry some random dude--why do we have to throw an expensive, stressful party over it? Gah!